Smart Moves! You Can Count On It

Meeting Reporter: Zahndri Prinsloo

On Tuesday 26 June 2018, the London Victorians Toastmasters club hosted yet anther great evening… A spectacular evening well prepared speeches, amazing evaluations as feedback to improve and good old fun with unprepared speaking on an interesting topic – ancestry. Just so you know, every Tuesday a spectacular things take place during out meetings. No exception. No compromise.

If you could’t join us, you missed the fun, but below are some of the highlights of the evening.
Why don’t you come and visit us and share your passion to become a spectacular public speaker, it happens every Tuesday, the next meeting is on 3rd July 2018. at 18:30 at

St James the Less Church, Vauxhall Bridge Road, Victoria, London, SW1V 2PS.

Nuala (Club President) presenting a New Member Certificate to Ariel (new club member)

Our club President Nuala McHugh welcomed one of our club’s newest members – Arial Elboyim.
The Founder of the Toastmasters Organisation – Mr Ralph C Smedley said: “Ours is the only organization I know dedicated to the individual, we work together to bring out the best in each of us and then we apply these skills to help others.”

Congratulations to our very own club President – Nuala – who was recently appointed as an Area Director in District 91 for 2018/2019. Wonderful to see one of our very own setting themselves up for increased leadership development.

The theme of the evening was “Smart Moves” as chosen by the Toastmasters of the evening – Mohammed Salih (aka Moh). Moh introduced each speaker and each role player with what they have experienced as a smart move. The one smart move that definitely stood out was the friend of club member Luke, who made the move to work on a yacht. Now a few years later, that very friend is a captain of a yacht and doing very well for himself. That was a smart move!

WORD OF THE EVENING: SYMBIOTIC

Word of the evening (Artist: Ariel the Grammarian)

The Grammarian for the evening was Ariel (yes! You guessed it! Our newest member!). The word he chose for the evening was: SYMBIOTIC. Symbiotic is defined as denoting a mutually beneficial relationship between different people or groups. The word of the evening was used a total of 13 times between the various speakers! Well done!

 

2 ladies. 2 speeches. Smart Move!
Yo Li – “How to have it easy”
Yo came to the realisation in her life that for her to have it easy, she will have to work really hard. Her scuba diving trip to Thailand was no exception.
She experienced 3 very particular challenges during the scuba dive trip:
– 1st dive: challenged mentally
– 2nd dive: challenged physically
– 3rd dive: challenged mentally and physically and physically suffered
After the scuba diving trip, she posted a thumbs up photo on social media about an awesome scuba diving experience despite the challenges she incurred.

Yo (on the left) and Jackie (on the right) were our fabulous prepared speakers for the evening

Yo Li is a great storyteller – she clearly took us through her hard working and challenging experience while scuba diving.

Jackie G – “How to have a good argument”
Having a good argument is not natural territory for most of us.
Jackie talked about conflict avoidance – she goes into flight mode not fight mode. But she does slam the door close to emphasize her feelings. ☺
From Jackie’s speech we learnt that in an argument there does not always have to be a winner and 3 ways to save our relationships:
1. Always get the full story
2. Avoid adding fuel to the fire
3. Compromise

Ahmed (on the left) and Sid (on the right) were the evaluators for the speakers’ speeches.

And like a truly innovative speaker, Jackie included the work of the evening in her speech. Well well done!!

At the meeting we had 4 most welcomed guests present at the meeting, each with their own unique reasons for attending:
1. Hugh – he has 2 best men speech to prepare for.
2. Victoria – want to work on developing her public speaking skills
3. Eric – recognises the need to grow personally and professionally & that is why he visits the club. He will be a member soon… Watch this space!
4. Lola – (like Lola’s cupcakes) want to develop a symbiotic relationship between herself and public speaking

Nuala recognising Yo for presenting her Ice Breaker speech

The Harkmaster for the evening (Joseph) was an absolute hero! He brought a box of Cadbury Hero’s with him to reward each member that successfully answered his questions which tested our listening skills of all the speakers on the evening. Just as Mr Ralph C Smedley has been quoted saying: “Real communication is impossible without listening”.

Nuala presenting the Best Table Topics award to our guest – Lola

In conclusion ladies and gentlemen:
Each club meeting at the London Victorians club meeting is truly unique and spectacular. It will be our pleasure to host you at our next club meeting. And YOU will definitely reap the rewards of increased self-confidence and personal growth.

Jim Rohn said it best when he said:
“Formal education will make you a living. Self-education will make you a fortune”.

Only at the Toastmasters. Where leaders are made.

 

 

First time? No problem!

Andrew Isabirye Reporting

theme for the night’s meeting was ‘Remembering the first time’, recalling moments when we do something for the first time. And what better way to start the evening by our President Nuala celebrating the club’s newest members Motsabi Rooper, Yue Cao, Joseph Omeiza (pictured below) and Ariel Elboim. Alongside the introduction to the club’s newest members came a celebration of the club’s long serving members who have served the club in outstanding fashion over the past year; Fahad Alturkait who had set up the mentor scheme and Pascale Monteil who ran the club’s questionnaire to find out what our club’s members wanted.

Yumi Lynch then took over the meeting from Nuala as the evening’s Toastmaster. Although it was her first time as a Toastmaster she smoothly took over proceedings and introduced the meeting functionaries who help the meeting to run effectively. Each functionary clearly explained their role and how it helps the meeting attendants get the most out of the meeting;
• Zahndri Prinsloo was the Grammarian who chose the word of the day as ‘Flabbergasted’ (meaning stunned, shocked or astonished)
• Yue Cao (pictured below) was the meeting’s Harkmaster
• Fahad Alturkait was the Seargant-at-Arms
• Anna Bevan was the Timekeeper
• Andrew Isabirye was the meeting reporter

Yumi Lynch as the Toastmaster for the evening

Yue Cao as the evening’s Harkmaster

Following these introductions, the meeting entered the speech section. The first speaker was Arsen Shnasev gave a speech entitled By all means, Marry! This speech gave us a humorous insight into the institution of marriage. Arsen delivered some memorable analogies which included comparing marriage to cooking, even comparing people in unhappy marriages to philosophers! His speech lasted for 7 minutes and 24 seconds and was evaluated by Mohammed Salih who highlighted the speeches structure and use of quotes and statistics as the strong points.

Arsen Shnasev seeing the humorous side to marriage

The second speech was by a visitor to London Victorians – Elodie Allion who gave a speech entitled Networking. This speech gave us a useful background on the value of networking and also provided us with useful tips on how to get the most out of the various networking scenarios we find ourselves in. Elodie spoke for 6 minutes and 45 seconds, and the speech was evaluated by Georgie Williams who praised Elodie’s super practical tips and the various speech tactics she used to persuade the audience.

Elodie Allion giving a speech on Networking

The third and final speech was by our veteran toastmaster Florian Bay. This was an advanced speech from the Public Relations Manual. Florian played the role of the UK Prime minister responding to an unprovoked nuclear attack during World War III. After Florian’s speech, Florian had to field difficult questions from an attentive and slightly distressed audience ranging from Martial Law, Food rationing, International Diplomacy and Conscientious Objectors! All in a day’s work for a wartime leader, who needs to see a blockbuster action film when we have our very own Florian Bay! The speech lasted for 6 minutes and the question phase lasted 4 minutes 12 seconds and was evaluated by Pascale Monteil who commended the emotional connection Florian was able to make and his ability to uplift the nation during a difficult time. This speech earned Florian the Best Speaker award and Pascale the Best Evaluator speech as voted by the meeting attendees.

Florian Bay winning the Best Speech award

After the speeches, our Sargent-at-Arms introduced the 12 guests to the club. A great sight to see as the London Victorians club once again demonstrating our ability to attract new people.

The club’s guests being introduced by Fahad Alturkait

The second part of the session was a special workshop hosted by Brad Revell who gave us a workshop on Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP). Brad explained the meaning of NLP as ‘A relationship between successful patterns of behaviour’. And during the workshop Brad shared insights into how we can use techniques of NLP to become more effective public speakers, going into some depth on how each part of the phrase Neuro Linguistic Programming relates to the different aspects of speaking. The tips could be applied to both beginner and advanced speakers and the London Victorian’s club will provide plenty of opportunities to apply these valuable methods!

Brad Revell giving a workshop on NLP

After Brad’s workshop, Yumi introduced our General Evaluator for the club as Andy Hammond who commended our club on our energy and enthusiasm and on the creative and informative speech titles. Yumi then handed the meeting back to our Club President Nuala who announced an award achieved by one our club’s most distinguished Toastmasters; Fahad Alturkait achieved the Triple Crown Pin Award given to members who achieve three education awards in a single program year. This is an immense achievement which also proves to show that you are never too experienced to achieve something for the first time!

Andy Hammond and Nuala McHugh

 

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Energy transformations from Charles Dickens to Thomas Edison

Florian Bay

Members and guests began trickling in at 6:30 pm, socializing over tea and coffee and sharing stories of the various paths that led them to Toastmasters and what they aim to achieve. The time is 6:45 pm and just like the rumbling of a Porsche turbo engine, 3,2,1, with a Loud bang of the gavel from the firm hands of Florian; the acting President and Toastmaster for the day, we were off to an explosive start to what would be an energetic Tuesday evening at London Victorians Toastmasters club meeting.

Luke Davies

Florian gave the president’s welcome address drawing on the history of Toastmasters International and the vision of the organisation to improve the art of public speaking and leadership of its members. *See table below.

Thomas R

Paulina Dabrowska

Slickly swiftly switching into his second role for the day, Florian as Toastmaster (meeting Host/coordinator for the day) explained how the next 2 hours would unfold broken into 5 main parts namely; Prepared speeches, Evaluations of prepared speeches, Welcome of Guests, Table Topics and  Evaluations of Table Topics. Florian went ahead to introduce his team of helpers for the the day who came out to explain their roles for the meeting.

 

Name Meeting Role Role Description
Ariel Time Keeper Using a Red, Amber and Green Signal,ensures speakers keep to time and gives a report on how they performed with respect to timing of their speech.

Actual time of the speeches for the night.

1st Speaker – Fail to Improve by Paulina – 6m 54s

2nd Speaker – Music & Active Listening by Andrew – 6m24s

3rd Speaker – Not all mice chew through your floor board by Anna – 6m13s

1st Evaluator – by Rob – 3m13s

2nd Evaluator – by Mohammed –3m33s

3rd Evaluator – by Steven – 3m0s

The table topics were also timed and a report was given by the Time keeper. All speakers kept to time.

Luke Grammarian Keeps track of creative use of the English Language and give a report. The word for the day was Energy.

Some interesting use of during the course of the evening;

“Act 1 Scene 1”, “DIY”, “ Really Fat men with lots of space to shove pie down their throats”, “I was scared shitless”, “Success comes in different flavours but they are not always sweet”

David Harkmaster Great public speaking involves active listening. This role will test the audience on how actively they have listened by asking questions
Joseph Meeting Reporter Covers the activities of the evening to update the website to keep our guests up to date on the activities of the club.
Jakie Topics Evaluator Gives feedback to all the table topic (Impromptu) speeches
Thomas General Evaluator Gives a general feedback on the day and evaluates speakers that may not have had the chance to receive feedback like those who held official roles in the meeting.

 

At 6 mins 54 seconds, the first prepared speech by Paulina, titled “Fail to Improve” gave an example of 3 “successful” individuals Thomas Edison (known for the Light Bulb) Jeff Bezos (known for Amazon) and Charles Dickens (known for the Christmas Carol) whose success came after many failures. Her speech went on to explain that they had one thing in common, they had no fear of failure. She rounded up the speech by encouraging the audience to embrace failure as a natural path to success.

Anna Bean best speaker

Stephen Nice best evaluator

At 6 mins 24 seconds, Andrew gave the second prepared speech for the day titled “Music & Active Listening”. Great speakers are active listeners he asserted and went ahead to provide scientifically back claims on how the brain processes listening to a speech and music the same way. Thus, by actively listening to music, we will invariably build our active speech listening skills which will ultimately move us further along the path of being better public speakers.

Anna gave the last prepared speech of the day at 6 mins 13 seconds and won the best speech prize.Titled “Not all mice chew through your floor board”, the aim was to challenge the speaker in the use of natural expressive body language in communicating and Anna did that brilliantly. The theme of Anna’s speech was home DIY and how with inspiration, right tools and time, one can transform their homes in a cost effective way. With Speeches completed, the audience voted for the best speech which Anna won.

The Next part of the evening was the evaluations of the prepared speech which was done in a timely manner with the evaluators giving the speakers feedback on their speech; highlighting positive aspects and areas of improvement. Rob won the best Evaluator speech.

Mayur, The Sergeant at arms welcomed all our guests (non-club members) to the meeting and had them introduced themselves and why they came along. There were 9 guests in attendance.

After a 10 minutes break, we were off to an exciting part of the meeting called the table topics anchored by Ayokunle, Table topics are impromptu speeches anyone can participate in. The speech topic is only revealed as the speaker gets on stage. This is a very interesting was to challenge yourself in thinking on your feet at so short a notice.

With 7 table topic speeches, Jackie did an amazing job in evaluating all of them in the 4 minute slot allowed to feedback to the speakers. She was excellent.

Luke subsequently gave the grammarian report and then the eagerly awaited Harkmaster’s game was played testing the attentiveness of the audience with sweets hurled across the room to the fastest person to answer correctly a question based on the speeches from the evening.

As the meeting began to slow to a fine conclusion, Thomas, the general evaluator for the day gave an overall feedback on how the evening went and stressed the importance of exploring the “How” and “Why” when speeches are given especially when evaluating other speakers.

The meeting was now back in the firm control of the able Toastmaster and acting president and with another loud bang of the gavel, Florian declared the 12th June 2018,Tuesday evening London Victorians Toastmasters club meeting closed.

You can download the artistic production by Joseph Omeiza

 

Annual General Meeting & Pizza Party

Best Speaker Award Luke Davies

Best Evaluator Award Thomas R.

Zahndri Prinsloo-This is my story – Icebreaker

Nuala McHugh current President hands over to new President Eleanor Handslip

I wonder who is happier?

Our President, Nuala welcomed members and guests. She told us how she joined Toastmasters as she needed to learn how to be more confident when presenting design concepts when the content is not always objective. At Toastmaster she found a group of like-minded and supportive people. She believes that in addition to having a purpose you need to have a voice to be able to act on your purpose.
Our charismatic Toastmaster for the evening was Andy T. His theme was the importance of community as communities shape our identity. Our timekeeper was Thomas M, from the Greenwich community, the home of time.
Our first speaker was Zahndri with her first ice breaker speech on the new Pathways training programme. She told us how she had learnt important lessons of teamwork from her failed relationships because everyone needs a team.
Luke was delivering his first speech. He had been trying to prepare his speech one Sunday and was on his 9th iteration when he realised he was ‘making a meal of it’ and this became the inspiration for the final version of his speech.
William delivered a speech called Movement is Medicine to practice before he delivers it at a TEDx event in London.
Next, we had evaluators; Mohammed, Thomas R and Ahmed, who evaluate the speeches so we can all pick up tips on how to improve our own speeches. Evaluators give each speaker commendations and recommendations.
Recommendations included:
Using personal stories to help the audience reflect and learn from the speaker’s experience
Try to use the stage in a structure way instead of pacing
Coming to the front of the stage to deliver the speech
Using a big claim in a speech piques the audience’s interest
Commendations were:
Great use of hand gestures
Using detail in a speech makes it memorable, e.g. not having a KitKat in my lunch box at school when all the other kids did.
Having a strong conclusion
Our evaluators and everyone with a role also get evaluated by our General Evaluator, this week it was Terry, a new member of the allotment community. His recommendations included:
Using purposeful movements instead of wandering about the stage
Explaining why a recommendation is made to a speaker would help them learn
Trying not to read in to note, but look at them then raise head to speak to the audience
Terry’s commendations were:
Telling a speaker what they did well and giving encouraging recommendations
Using the phrase, ‘I liked …’
Great energy
We had a vote and the results were:
Best Evaluator: Thomas R
Best Speaker: Luke
This evening was slightly different from normal as we concluded with our AGM, making decisions on how our club is run and electing the new committee.